Confidescent

you don't choose who you're attracted to

it's not a logical choice you don't choose who you're drawn to.... or who you're attracted to

and early on in your love life you'll be drawn to partners who trigger...... whatever it is within you

that needs to be triggered.. that needs to be transcended and worked on right?

and you'll.. subconsciously put yourself in that same sort of situation.. over and over again....

until you learn whatever it is that you need to learn until you make the subconscious conscious.... and start to apply that learning

to your life.. but what's so cool is when people

actually start to do that and they evolve as a person the type that they're attracted to

starts to evolve as well they don't go chasing after of toxic partner or whatever they did once they put in the work and change as a person... so it's almost like early on our love life we have a destiny we're drawn to the narcissist..... or we're drawn to the hot girl or we're drawn to whoever so it's like.. you need that to grow as a vessel through

which you evolve you have to go through that in order to get to a point where.. you're no longer attracted or you drawn to that.