new to server, need help

when i first logged on i was impressed that i could choose board size and color. the graphics seemed quite nice. when i went to actually play a game, my preferences were ignored, i was given a smaller board, in an ugly color and with wierd and distracting graphics showing where and how a move was played. i then went to the chatroom and asked for any advice but was ignored. apparently the topic of "emo" culture was more important than helping someone.

my primary usage here will be to play real-time games with friends who live in other parts of the country. i would also know if there are editing tools to help teach chess on this server? anyone care to step up? thanks.

The first problem might be solved by going into your preferences again and making sure you press "Save" on the bottom of the page.