I'll just move pieces around and make it look like I'm playing.
People that get the queen out right away
Don't play against them if you don't want to. There are openings I don't want to play against that I sometimes just don't have the patience for. Other times I play. Don't live your life in fear.
One of the best feelings in chess is refuting unsound "pet systems" that people have invested a bunch of time and effort into analyzing/learning.
people get the queen out right away? you could lose it and resign so look at this:
win the queen if you see a way
If the rating of the opponent is more or less the same, taking the queen out too early can be a huge mistake by them or at the least a waste of development time. Get the knights and bishops out, just watch out that the knights' pawns don't get grabbed by the queen.
If I'm playing someone and they get out their queen early, then I will initially match it with mine. Doing that usually chases her back or forces a trade off.
Will chess.com ban my account if I just resign when people get the queen out right away? These people are miserable to play.
Pulling out the Queen is tempting for the beginner (or, so to say, the ultra beginner), because one sees at that level, only its marvelous mobility, its strenght.
And all the same, at that stage of understanding chess, one is unaware of the other side of the coin: the weakness of the Queen is its grand value, which makes it have to run away every time it's attacked by something else than an other Queen. Because you don't want to trade a 9 pawns value piece for much less than that. (Rook 5, Bishop or Knight 3).
You have got the opportunity, with these players, to practice what is said, about why it's wrong to expose the Queen so early, without backup, without flank pieces and pawns, without any support.
Are you good at Queen hunt? I don't think so. Seize the chance to become good at it, instead feeding childish thoughts.
i hate playing against people who just want to trade queens
And same than above: you should not, but instead learn how to exploit that weakness of your opponent, into trading Queens in a way that is favourable to you.
Will chess.com ban my account if I just resign when people get the queen out right away? These people are miserable to play.