Stalling is why I stopped playing rapid games and switched to blitz. Sad. My advice is report them and get out a chess puzzle book to keep you busy while you wait. And keep the screen in view.
What percentage of your won games were stalled?
In correspondence, someone took the max limit to make forced moves. That made me wonder if I should do a long guaranteed crush or a risky attack to finish it. I stayed with guaranteed.
Here I wished to write few lines.
1) Ten minutes game. Ten minutes is given for thinking. If you take it or not
2) If you disagree about the time speed. then choose 5 minutes. or 3 minutes Blitz. Nobody won't mind.
3) the lesser time you spend in chess, the more your winning probability. So use the strategy. I played the blitz. And I did not stop even I was always 1st# that time but I knew that my 2nd and 3rd position players are behind me. So my suggestion is .......... play and play faster and make a BIG gap between the number of trophies of your position. Hope this suggestion will work for you.
I myself being a low rated player got LEGEND few months ago. I have to work hard. my league players (2nd, 3rd and even 4th or 5th) up and down fluctuating. Very tough when I reached Champion league. I still remember the 2nd place owner was vigorous player. But somehow I beat him and won the league.
So it happens. Never mind. Just enjoy and have fun.
I make more blunders when I play blitz because...
1. I sometimes don't have enough time to think so I make hasty moves and viola: blundered queen.
2. Easy to lose on time :/